Soccer referees play a crucial role in ensuring fair play, enforcing the rules of the game, and maintaining the safety of players on the field. They make split-second decisions, manage the flow of the game, and contribute significantly to the overall sportsmanship and integrity of soccer matches at all levels. Without them not only would we not be able to function as a club — organized soccer as a whole would become a ball of chaos.
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Becoming a certified referee in Connecticut is a two-step process. You must complete both steps before you can receive your referee patch and get assigned games. Don't get overwhelmed — it's not that bad once you get started.
To become a referee you must be at least 13 years of age. Candidates over 18 must also complete a background screening and SafeSport training — both are included in the US Soccer coursework below.
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US Soccer Online Coursework
Create an account at the US Soccer Learning Center and complete the coursework. New referees can go directly to the First Time Referee link to do both at once. NOTE: Use the referee's own email as primary — parent's email goes in as secondary.
Returning referees must recertify yearly. The recert link is good through June 15. For notes on the recert test process, see the Recert Document.
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In-Person Field Training
Sign up on the CT Referee site for the first-time in-person referee class. Sessions are held at various locations in Connecticut in the spring and fall. Keep an eye out for a local session in the Putnam area — it beats driving down to Norwalk.
Only after completing both steps will you receive your patch and be able to receive games on Central Assign. All CJSA licensed clubs must use Central Assign. Make sure you also register on CT Referee's site — without it you won't appear in the system.
Proper signaling is a critical part of officiating. Clear, consistent signals communicate your decisions to players, coaches, and spectators — and they give you authority on the field. Visit our dedicated Proper Signaling page →
You can order referee uniforms from Capelli Referee Uniforms or Official Sports — both are solid options. If you plan to ref in tournaments or are seriously committed, consider adding a green jersey to your kit.
📌 Uniform Basics
You'll receive full guidance at first-year field training, but remember: long black tube socks are mandatory, and shorts must be an appropriate length. You are a professional — how you present yourself reflects on every referee who comes after you.
Not all whistles are equal — tone, volume, and feel matter on the pitch. Here's a review of all the major whistles available. This same creator has excellent whistle technique tips as well. The key: make it clear and loud when the moment calls for it. Choosing your tone takes time to develop — don't overthink it to start.
Both referees in the uniform photo above are wearing two watches — and that's intentional. A watch is one of the most essential tools you carry onto the field:
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Timekeeping: Accurately track each half, injury time, and added time. A second watch protects you if your primary fails.
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Tracking Stoppages: Stop your watch for injuries, substitutions, or delays and add that time back at the end of each half.
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Multiple Timers: Modern referee watches let you simultaneously track match time and stoppage time.
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Precision: Even a few seconds can be significant in close games — accurate timekeeping is non-negotiable.
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Syncing with Assistants: Referees and assistants sync watches before the game to ensure consistency across the crew.
⚠️ A cell phone is not an acceptable substitute. Here are some very affordable digital watches that will do the job just fine.
Safety is the top priority of a soccer referee — encompassing players, coaches, fans, and the overall game environment. Referees monitor for dangerous play, manage player behavior, assess weather conditions, inspect fields and goals for hazards, and manage the conduct of coaches and fans on the sidelines. By maintaining firm, consistent control on and off the field, referees help provide a safe and respectful environment for everyone involved.
📋 Assignments from NECONN
Once you're certified, reach out to our Referee Assignor to get set up with games. Let us know your schedule and comfort level — whether you're ready to run centers or just starting out as an AR. Assignments, invitations, and updates are distributed through Central Assign.
⚠️ NECONN's Referee Abuse Policy
Referees are not always perfect, but respect for their decisions and authority is both important and required. NECONN operates under the guidelines of our governing bodies. We require all coaches to read our Referee Abuse Policy before they begin. We are here to enforce US Soccer's stance and to empower and protect you on the pitch.
US SOCCER and NECONN take protecting referees seriously. It is your duty to not allow yourself or your assistant referees to be abused. Use your cards and game reports to maintain the respect and safe climate that all referees deserve.
If you or someone you know has been subjected to abuse while refereeing at NECONN, please reach out: